Please FORGIVE Me…

    Have you ever had a quarrel or an argument? I bet everyone has surely ever been there! You name it, from friends, officemates, partners, couples, colleagues, neighbors to family members. People say that the quality of relation can be measured through its capability of solving problems. The harder problem you conquered the stronger relation you have. But the worst part is that most problems come in hurricane. However, the issue is not about the cause of it but how you deal with it. So here you go…Will you FORGIVE them? Must you FORGET it? Can you MOVE ON?

   FORGIVE . . . 

Let’s see, minor mistake can be easily forgiven, some maybe have forgiven already before you even apologize. While others can’t. Though you want to forgive, you just couldn’t do it because your heart just won’t let you do so. Specially, when it really hits or hurts you.  Betrayal is one of that. Will you forgive someone who stabbed you from behind? Someone who you really trust and know almost all your secret? In marriage life it is unacceptable when your couple is cheating on you. It takes years to fix the pieces of your broken heart before you do. In certain cases some choose not to give forgiveness at all.         

   FORGET . . .

Forgetting? Hold on, wait… is not that easy. Our brain contains the ability both in learning new things and remembering old information. Speaking about old information, brain tends to keep certain memory, specially, the unforgettable ones. Some are good memories while others are not. The time has gone by, he’s already apologized, you’ve given your forgiveness already, but somehow the memory still hunted you. And everything will never be the same, no more trust. Well, just a little, maybe. You try to act the same but sure everything will never be like that.     

   MOVE ON . . .

Can we move on without forgiving and forgetting? It depends on the term of move on itself. Still go on with the same relationship without forgetting is possible. But forgiving, absolutely not, it’s a different story. Trying to have the same relationship without it is impossible. Move on and make another relationship with different person is a better option.

Forgive… Forget… and Move On… 

Would you be so kind to bring them back into your life ?


Taken From ECB Material